Depending on others to fix your problems isn’t going to work. 

It’s not in their interest to fix your problems. They have their own. 

Only you can find the solution to the problems in your life. Only you can fix them. 

You can definitely bring in extra hands to help or develop a plan but in the end it’s up to you to fix the problem. 

Every problem has a solution. Perhaps the way your thinking of the problem is the problem.